Can you give me an idea of what a florist charges for an average-priced wedding? It depends on where you live. The metropolitan areas of California and the northeastern states are the highest, while the central mountain states are the lowest, the nationwide average being about $640. This price doesn't include flowers for the reception, however, or any extras, such as flowers for the wedding cake, extra corsages and boutonnieres or any special treatments, such as a decorated bird bath.
What percentage of the total wedding budget is spent on the flowers? Usually 8 to 12 percent.
I'd like to talk to several florists before hiring one to do our wedding. Are florists offended by this? If they are true professionals, they shouldn't be. You should feel free to walk into any florist in town and ask to see photographs of floral arrangements and bouquets they have created for other weddings they have done; and they should be willing to offer several written wedding plans that vary in total cost and what they include. Every florist will give you something new and interesting to consider, as well, especially if they have decorated ceremony or reception sites for other weddings. By the time you make your decision, you should feel very confident about your choice. One word of advice: Don't ever trust a florist who says, "Don't worry about anything, just leave it all up to me."
Is it possible for some of the flowers to serve double-duty at the ceremony and reception ? Yes, there are a number of ways you can tactfully and tastefully reuse your flowers. Here are a few: Have the ushers quietly carry any floral arrangements, silk or fresh potted plants or trees from the ceremony site to the reception site, using them on the buffet table, cake table, at the corners of the stage, "framing" the bride and groom as they stand under an arch during the reception or placed randomly around the reception hall. Design the pew markers so they can double as centerpieces on the tables at the reception. Transfer any evergreen or floral garlands from the ceremony site to the reception hall to drape over doorways or windows or along the buffet serving table. Use the bride's and bridesmaids' bouquets to form a mound of flowers along the front of the bride's table or to encircle the wedding cake on the cake table.
What size bouquet should I carry? Is there a rule of thumb? Yes. If you are tall, carry a cascading bouquet; if you're short, carry a smaller one. Also, take your gown into consideration. If it has a lot going on in the way of busy detail, you'll need a simple bouquet that doesn't "fight" with the dress; on the other hand, if your gown is unadorned, with simple, flowing lines, you'll need a more complicated, busier bouquet.
Unfortunately, we need to decorate a huge sanctuary for the ceremony. Any suggestions? First of all, if money is a problem, you can use free-cut flowering shrubs to fill large wicker baskets. Lilacs work very well, if your wedding happens to be in the spring. Also, remember that it is smart to use white flowers, especially for an evening wedding; they stand out and look larger and brighter than colored flowers. Be sure to embellish the flowers with yards and yards of wide white ribbon, as well. If the ceiling is high, as I imagine your sanctuary's to be, use tall altar flowerswhite, of course. My only other suggestion is to drape garlands of greenery and wide white ribbon everywhere possible: along the altar, over the doorways and window frames, from column to column and from pew to pew. This will help tie it all together, and for very little money.
What is a "pull-away boutonniere"? It is a boutonniere that is concealed inside the bride's bouquet. After the bride is given away by her father at the altar, she removes this pull-away boutonniere and pins it to her groom's lapel as a symbol of her love for him. This can be a touching addition to the ceremony.
What determines the cost of the bride's bouquet? Here are a few of the factors:
- The ratio of flowers to fillers; the more flowers, the more expensive.
- The price of the flowers you select. If you have your heart set on flowers that are out-of-season or hothouse grown, the cost will go up.
- How the flowers are arranged and whether they are individually wired.
- The overall size of the bouquet; the longer and wider, the more expensive.
If you have a talented amateur florist in your family, you can order all the "ingredients" and have your fresh-flower bouquet made up for about 20 percent of the cost of ordering it through a retail florist. Or one popular idea is to make up the bouquet ahead of time with silk flowers at a similar savings; not only will you avoid last-minute anxieties of working with fresh flowers, but you'll have a treasured momento of your wedding that will stay "fresh" for all the years to come.
What are some alternatives to the traditional bridal bouquet? You can carry a simple tussy mussy bouquet, a hand-tied arm bouquet of loose fresh flowers, a decorated Bible or prayer book or a lacy white fan decorated with a few silk or fresh flowers.
How soon do I need to book the florist? As soon as you become engaged, start shopping for a florist. Once you've made your selection, book him or her for your wedding date. However, your actual choice of corsages, bouquets, boutonnieres and decorative arrangements can be made two or three months before the wedding; this will give the florist plenty of time to place any necessary special orders. Most florists book only one or two weddings per weekend, so it's important to be placed on his or her calendarthe detailed order itself can wait.
What is your best word of advice regarding florists? Stay away from any florist who says, "We'll do whatever you wantjust tell us what you have in mind." What you want instead is a florist who is also an artistone who will give you ideas and then work with you.